A "New Take" on New Years Resolutions for 2009
by Barbara Jennings, CRS/CSS
Got any resolutions in mind for next year? Do you have the resolve to make them a reality?
Yeah, it’s another year.
I wonder where this year went? Or should I say, did the last one GROW at
- Did you accomplish all you wanted to accomplish?
- Make your numbers
or quota or fall backwards?
- Achieve your goals no matter how small?
- Bank your money and save anything?
- Did you lose the weight, gain weight, stay the same?
- Stop smoking, stop drinking alcohol, stop eating sweets?
- Spend more time with the family or exercise more?
- Read that book or go on that trip?
Well it’s now a NEW YEAR (almost) so you gotta throw away old goals.
This may sound strange, but I say: Throw away your “typical resolutions.” They
rarely pan out anyway, don't you agree? Resolutions are little more than vague
statements to make you feel better in the short term and then they make you feel
guilty in the long term when you don't achieve them.
New Year’s resolutions are a way of telling yourself that there’s something
you want to achieve. But do they become reality? Only you know for sure.
A Better Way
A better way to look at resolutions is to determine why you’re making them in the first place, and create personal resolve to change the root cause.
Here are two hard questions you need to ask yourself as you make this year’s obligatory resolutions:
1. Why are you making this resolution?
2. What are you willing to do differently that will make this resolution a reality?
For example, if your resolution is “lose weight” or “lose 20 pounds” (which it probably is
- at least it is for me), maybe we should look to the root cause:
…and create specific personal resolves from there. Here are a few specific resolves:
- I eat the wrong foods
- I eat on the run
- I eat too much fast food
- I eat late at night
- My diet has too much soda or chips
- I eat too much food at one sitting
- I eat all day long
- I never exercise
- I will cut out all donuts.
- I will not drink soda for six months.
- I will only eat fast food on Wednesday.
- I will go to the gym Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday.
I hate to rain on your New Year’s Day parade, but we have an opportunity to achieve what
we have resolved, if we will just be real with ourselves, and make the resolve statements in the form of SPECIFIC personal actions and SPECIFIC personal achievements.
The more specific we can make them, the more likely we are to make them happen.
Tell yourself EXACTLY what you intend to do.
Tell yourself EXACTLY what you will do or are willing to do.
And you’ll have a 99% better chance of achieving. That's what I'm going to
You’ve heard the old saying, “Where there’s a will there’s a way.”
I even wrote a book years ago as a "take off" on that saying.
What it means is: first you better have the will.
Will is the root word of willing. And willing is the trigger for achievement. If you are not willing to do, and you do not intend to do, then resolution, resolve, or goal
means nothing – or better stated, it will be your resolution AGAIN next year.
And so the key questions behind your potential to achieve anything you want to achieve this year are:
- What are you willing to do?
- What are you willing to change?
- What are you willing to become better at?
- What are you willing to sacrifice or let go of?
- Are you willing to work harder or not?
- Are you willing to get up earlier in order to give yourself more achievement time
or are you going to continue sleeping in?
- And what is it worth to you once it’s achieved?
REALITY: Your willingness creates your will.
YOUR REALITY: Resolve to be more willing.
Happy New Year.
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